Abby's Lane

"Cloth 101"

Why would I want to use cloth diapers? TOP

A lil' disclaimer:

Cloth diapering is easy and fun. There are lots of choices out there but don't get overwhelmed! Heck, think of all of the cars on the market, but eventually with a little research you find one that works great and was well worth a little reading ;)

Our moms did "cloth" with diapers the size of tablecloths and pins that could poke through steel (ask your mama, she probably still has the scars from those pins on her fingers). Those days are gone, and cloth has come a long way. Any questions, please e-mail me at Abbyslane@aol.com, I promise to get back to you as quickly as my children will let me :)

For me, there was a HUGE reason to get involved- $$$$$!! The savings is astronomical. I was spending about 40-50$ a month in disposables, not even including wipes and diaper rash cream on top of that. Cloth diapering is an investment, and you can make it as expensive or as thrifty as you want. Cloth diapers "breathe" much better than disposables, and children tend to have fewer incidences of diaper rash in cloth diapers.

FUN!! Cloth diapering is such a fun experience!! I had heard horror stories of cloth diapers...getting stuck with pins, leaking, poop everywhere, a constant smell in your house, etc. Thanks to so many wonderful updates in cloth diapering technology (hee hee), all of those myths have been dispelled. You can invest in cloth diapers that are no different than disposables in style, totally eliminating pins, or you can "pin" your covers with a Snappi fastener (check out our Snappi page to see what it is!) Odors can be easily managed, and diaper changes are no messier than disposable changing. Cloth diapering makes diaper changing interesting, cute prints to soft fabrics let you know cloth diapering pleases both mom and baby, and I personally love the way my daughter looks in cloth diapers, just like a little angel!!

Don't cloth diapers get stains? TOP

I have had a few stains in our experience. They came out easily by exposing the stained parts of the diaper to the sun for a few hours. Try a different detergent if you experience much staining, but if you use a hot wash, you can be assured the diaper is clean, a quick sniff will confirm this!

How do I get started? TOP

The products I sell at Abby's Lane, I have used personally or had many customers thrilled with, so I can attest and guarantee your satisfcation with every item. I have broken down these products into categories:

THRIFTY: the combination of covers/prefolds. At Abby's Lane, we sell Proraps covers and Thirsties covers, in white and colors. If you plan on doing laundry once a day, you would need at least 3-4 covers, and a dozen to 18 Indian prefolds. Covers only need to be changed when they get soiled or wet, and at the end of a day. I rarely had to use more than one cover a day with Abby, just when they would get soiled. With this system, you change the prefold inside the cover, and use a Snappi fastener to make sure the prefold stays put. If you do laundry every other day, you may want more covers, and more prefolds. At night-time, you will need to buy at least one diaper from the next category.

A LITTLE "SPLURGY": Pocket Diapers: At Abby's Lane, we several styles of pocket diapers, Swaddlebees , BumGenius, Fuzzi Bunz, Blueberry Mommy's Touch One-Size and Happy Heinys. They are called "pocket diapers" because they are a two-layered diaper with a space in the middle to stuff a prefold inside of them. The layer that rests on baby's bottom is a soft fleece or suedecloth, so the baby never "feels" wet. The upper layer is a print or solid fabric, usually cotton or polyester. The beauty of these pocket diapers is twofold:

One, if you stuff them with a prefold while you fold your laundry, you can stack them in your diaper changing area, and use them just like disposables. No need to fold anything or fasten anything, just grab one and place it on your baby.

Two, you control how much absorbancy they have. I stuff mine with one prefold for daytime, and at night, I use a larger prefold with a hemp insert (see our "Inserts by Babykicks" page), and it will last my super-soaker all night long. If you use the cover/prefold system, you will need 1-2 pocket diapers at nighttime, depending on how often you do laundry. If you want to avoid the expense of pockets, you can certainly use the cover/prefold system at night, but the baby may need to be changed more often. You will need to change the pocket diaper and the prefold at each diaper change, so if you do laundry daily, start with 10-12 pocket diapers, and a dozen prefolds, you can always add to your collection.

AIO's (All-In-Ones):

The name says it all! One piece diapers, nothing to pin, put together or stuff. AIO's hve layers built into the diaper, for easy diapering and easy washing. Bumkins AIOs, Swaddlebees and Magic-Alls AIOs are some of the brands we carry~

How do I wash my diapers? TOP

Depending on who you ask, you may get a variety of answers on this question. If you use a diaper pail with a reusable liner, you can just throw everything in the wash without ever touching a dirty diaper. I have always used a hot wash/warm rinse cycle for my diapers, and they all go in together. I never had pre-soaked them, or needed to add vinegar or other laundry boosters. I have never had staining problems or odor problems with my system, so you may have luck with it! As far as detergents, I use regular liquid Tide. "Free and Clear" detergents contain waxy products, which may build up on your diapers, hindering their absorbancy, and also lack the ability to really get diapers clean. Overall, natural detergents (seventh generation, biokleen, etc...) just don't seem to cut it with cloth diapers. They lack the stronger cleansing agents and can leave the diapers still soiled after washing. Two popular detergents promoted with cloth diapers are "Charlie's Soap" and "Sensi-Clean". We have encountered too many stories of chemical-like burns on babies who wore diapers washed in these products to recommend them. If you encounter a blistery-raw rash after using these laundry products, please immediately discontinue use.

Detergent confusion! TOP

One thing to remember: Every website has an opinion on diaper washing. If it works for you, don't worry about what everyone else (including us) recommends, washing is far from a science. Water conditions, wash cycles, duration of wash cycles, temperatures and how often you are washing all come into play here. What works for your next door neighbor may be problematic for you, so if what you are doing is working, stick with it :)

IN SHORT:

For Top Loaders~

Detergents we love:

Tide original powder, Country Save, Planet (but you HAVE to do a hot wash and it is best to do a warm rinse, and you still may periodically need to use a stripping method)

Detergents we "like":

Tide orignal liquid, Cheer, Sun, Tide Free, Mountain Green (same as Planet, definately HOT wash, warm rinse and be prepared for periodic stripping) Purex Free and Clear is on this list, but we don't recommend it over Tide Free.

Detergents we don't like:

Allen's, Dr. Bronners, 7th generation, Era, Gain, Method, Shaklee, any other "free and clear" detergents

Detergents we do not recommend under any circumstances:

Charlies, Sensiclean, Sportwash

FOR FRONT LOADERS:

Detergents we love:

Tide HE powder, Country Save

Detergents we like:

Tide Free HE, Planet

Detergent we don't like:

Allens, Any free and clear detergents other than Tide HE

At Abby's Lane, we recommend washing diapers every 2 days, using a "regular" detergent. We personally use regular powder Tide, and find a great number of customers have their best washing success with Tide as well. Regular meaning not a Free and Clear, or a Natural detergent (including anything soap based). Now, I know some mamas use the natural and F&C detergents without any problems, but we encounter enough problems from our experiences and that of our customers to recommend otherwise. Families who have a "green" household and only use detergents that fall under that category may need extra steps in their laundry cycle to properly cleanse their diapers. We would love to work with you on finding a system that works for you, please e-mail me at Abbyslane@aol.com with any questions.

My disclaimer: If your baby is very sensitive to regular detergents, the least problematic Free and Clear detergent we have found is Tide Free.

Free and clear or natural detergents tend to not have the stronger cleansers that regular detergents do, and they also tend to have waxier ingredients in them. I would estimate 99% of our customers who have odor issues are using a free and clear or natural detergent. We personally love regular, liquid Tide, but any of your other store brands (Gain, Sun, Era, etc..) can work just as well. Don't skimp on detergent, but also don't go overboard. Take the amount you would use on a load of clothing the size of your load of diapers, and use a tiny bit less.

Many are concerned with specific ingredients in mainstream detergents, but we feel they are still the best choice for the majority of our customers. If your child shows a reaction or is allergic to any one detergent, then of course there are alternatives. If you wish to use a detergent that is biodegradable and does not cause as much of an environmental impact, we would love to work with you to find a solution.

The fact that some children react to some of these detergents does not make them harmful overall. As with anything you use for your baby, test it in a small amount first. If you see redness, a rash, blisters, discontinue use. Enzymes are present in Tide, and many other detergents. Enzymes eat away at stains, if you are washing in hot water, the enzymes will get rinsed out. Perfumes are an extra added ingredient, but detergents with perfumes are usually the stronger, mainstream detergents that contain the stronger cleansers, so in order to have the great cleaning agents, the perfumes are part of the package. If you do not like having scents on your clothes there are detergents that do not contain these that we would still recommend. Dyes are present in many mainstream detergents. Are they harmful to diapers? No, it is an aesthetic issue, and unless we are all wearing organic cotton clothing in an off-white shade, we are participating in the dye-phenomenon.

We want to make diaper washing, first and foremost, safe for your child.

This is why we cannot in good conscience recommend Charlie's Soap or Sensi-Clean. We have not been able to pinpoint what causes such a strong reaction in these products, until we do we advise to use other detergents.

Environmental concerns are of course taken into account. We do realize Tide hasn't won any awards for being a "green" detergent, and we have to balance that with the success rate we see of customers using Tide or other mainstream detergents. What we have seen work with a "green" detergent:

-Planet (http://www.planetinc.com/ull.htm) is a detergent brand we see working with the most success amongst biodegradable and eco-friendly detergents. BUT, you do have to wash on hot, you do need a good rinse cycle (we recommend a warm rinse cycle over a cold one for this product), your diapers need to be washed frequently (meaning daily or every other day), and if you have hard water or well water you may need a water softener to aid in your washing. We also see more success with the liquid over the powder.

FRONT LOADERS: Great for the environment, sometimes problematic for diapers. But, it can be done successfully :)

Based on what our customers are telling us, and some trial and error, here is what seems to work with front loaders:

-If you have control over the water level, fill it higher than the load size. Many front loaders don't let you do this, they automatically adjust the water level, but if you can adjust it higher, it will work better.

-Use a HE detergent, or any that is formulated for a front loader. The less suds, the better, and HE are made to be easier to rinse out. Since front loaders are designed to be water-efficient, this is important.

-Use a tad more detergent that you would in a top loader. Not extra, but just closer to what you would use in a regular clothing load of the same size.

-If you have an extra rinse cycle at the end you can use, do so :)

Some mamas will come to us, and say they want enough diapers to only do laundry once a week, or at the most every 5-6 days. This can be incredibly problematic. First, your pail would have to reach the ceiling. Second, I always like to throw out the analogy of storing your husband's work shirts in urine and feces for a week and see how easily you can get them fresh and sparkly on Sunday wash day. I would love to try this with my husband, but by day 3 of the experiment he gets rather cranky ;)

Cloth diapers are diapers, but they are fabric, so remember what they are sitting in, and washing every 1-2 days will eliminate many odor problems.

If you encounter odors or repelling on your diapers, please e-mail me at Abbyslane@aol.com, we can figue it out together :)

Tell me about newborn diapering TOP

Cloth diapering a newborn is both easy and lots of fun! Babies aren't too wiggly yet, and nothing is cuter than a newborn little baby bottom wrapped in a cloth diaper :)

Newborn diapering is a little different than diapering an older baby, in that you have to think of "quantity" of diapers rather than "absorbancy" as you will when the baby is a little older. Newborns, especially breastfed newborns, tend to have a small bowel movement with each urine output, which can mean upwards of 12-18 diapers a day.

The two recommended systems for newborn diapering are prefolds or fitteds and covers.

Prefolds/fitteds and covers:

This sytem is great for newborns! Very economical (and those little babies outgrow their small diapers so fast, this way you can save on the first stage of diapering). If you opt for prefolds, you can also use them later in pocket diapers, or inside All In Ones for added absorbancy. Prefolds in general are a great cloth diapering "staple".

For this system, you will need about 18-24 prefolds for washing every day or every other day. We sell Indian cotton prefolds, which work beautifully. 3-4 thirsties covers in extra-small, a few Snappi fasteners and some fleece liners (about 12-18). When thinking about what size to purchase in both prefolds and covers, the answer will vary on the size of your baby. Some moms need premie prefolds, some do not. Some need newborn proraps, some go straight to smalls. I always recommend you purchase the infant prefold size, with one or two preemie sized prefolds. You know you will use the infant sized prefolds at some point soon, and the preemie sample will let you know if what you have is too big. Since we ship every business day, we can get a preemie dozen to you quickly. Usually babies born in the 7-9 pound range can go straight into infant prefolds and small prorap covers. I recommend small prorap covers, possibly a newborn just in case your baby is under 7-8 pounds, and we can get the smaller size to you if you need it. The bikini twist method of folding the prefold is especially nice for containing newborn messes, although you may find another folding variation that works for you.

For a fitted diaper system, we sell several varieties of fitteds. Kissaluvs, Thirsties and Happy Hugger Sherpa Fitteds are all great diapers! You need as many fitteds as you do prefolds, if you are mixing both fitteds and prefolds, it works well, just purchase enough of both to make it through a day and a half of washing.

Once the baby stops having bowel movements at night (around the 1-3 month mark), a pocket diaper for nighttime is a great solution for keeping the baby feeling dry while they sleep at night. Traditionally, pocket diapers and newborns were not a good mix, as newborns tend to have "explosive" bowel movements that would leak out of most pockets. However, having used the BumGenius pocket diaper with a new baby, I can personally attest to their ease of use and effectiveness with a new baby. The BumGenius range is 8-35 pounds, I advise to start using them at the 10 pound mark, or when the baby has more "chunk" on their legs and belly. You still need a good supply, 18-24 depending on how often you wish to wash diapers. A note on this system, however, if your baby is 7 pounds or under at birth, the tried and true prefold/fitted with a cover system may still be preferred until the baby puts a little weight on. Once the baby can wear the BumGenius, a smaller insert like a preemie prefold or a microfiber towel will work great until the baby is bigger and can use the Cotton Babies insert that comes with the diaper.

If you are using the fleece liners with your prefolds or fitteds, you can make your own very inexpensively. Either by purchasing a yard or two of fleece at the fabric store and cutting it into rectangles (you do not need to sew fleece to use it), or cutting up a cheap fleece throw will work perfectly fine.

For newborn cloth wipes, the three trillion baby washcloths you receive at a baby shower will work beautifully, if investing in more plush and thicker wipes is not in the picture right away. For newborns, their tiny little bottoms are best cleaned by a thin wipe :)

How many diapers do I need? TOP

I hate to answer a question with a question, but it really depends on how often you plan to be washing, and how old your baby is. My guideline I always give to my customers is that you can ALWAYS add to your collection of diapers. Don't think that the initial investment is several hundred dollars. If you start with a few prefolds and a cover or two, and gradually add to it while you phase out disposables, it can be done very economically. You can always add to what you have, if you are in a pinch we always ship next business day so we can get items to you quickly~

For a newborn, washing every day, you need about 18-20 prefolds or fitteds, 2-4 covers, and a few Snappis if you are doing prefolds or fitteds and covers exclusively. If you are using a pocket diaper or AIO, just subtract that many fitteds or prefolds from that number. If you plan to wash diapers every two days, double those numbers :)

For an older baby, maybe 3-4 months and up, about 15-17 diapers (pockets, AIO's or prefolds/fitteds) will get you through the day with time to wash the diapers.

Toddlers need the fewest diapers, but you do need absorbant ones. 8-10 pockets, AIO's or prefolds/fitteds with a few covers will work perfectly :)

For a newborn, about 2 dozen wipes is a great place to be, for an older baby about half of that will suffice. If you are in a pinch for wipes, baby washcloths will work great as well.

That is really all you need for full-time cloth diapering. A few extras like a wetbag or two, and a pail liner or two will come in handy, but if you really need to start now, the above numbers will be a great start!

Do I really want to use cloth wipes? TOP
They are so easy and will save you money! Cloth wipes will save you lots of $$ over time, plus if you have a cloth diapering/laundry system going, you won't even notice the switch! I used disposable wipes for a while with cloth diapers, and it was a big chore. I would have to seperate the wipes from the diapers before they went into the pail, and find a seperate bag to wrap up the wipes in, put them in our trash can, then take them out before they got stinky. If you throw disposable wipes in your diaper pail, they disintegrate in the laundry, making a big task out of having to pick little fuzzies out of your clean diapers. When you use cloth wipes, you just toss everything in the pail together, no sorting or touching the soiled items. Just sort them when you fold your laundry, and use them again. Some moms like to soak their wipes in various solutions, but again, I opt for the easiest option. I have a stack of cloth wipes in my diaper changing area. Before a diaper change, I just grab a few, wet them with water, and use them. I bought a little "Huggies" wipe container, took out the dispoable wipes, and just throw some cloth wipes in it to store them. Some moms use a spray bottle while changing the diaper, you can pick whichever method works for you! If you have lots of baby washcloths at the house, they make great wipes as well :)

What the heck do all of these different inserts mean? TOP

Our insert/doubler page can be overwhelming, try a little "Stuffing 101" before examining the products :)

Inserts/doublers/prefolds/stuffins are all words that mean specific items to place inside a

a. pocket diaper=for absorbancy

b. a cover=for absorbancy (NOT microfiber inserts unless below another layer of fabric, read below for why)

Generally, inserts are made of 3 different materials, either by themselves or in a combination.

1.Microfiber-the most common insert material on the market. Most "free" inserts are microfiber, the ones we carry are Wonderfulls, Thirsties, Cotton Babies, Happy Heinys, Mother of Eden, etc...They are white in color, and usually 3 layers of microfiber, a 100% polyester fabric. These inserts can be used inside a pocket diaper or underneath another insert or fabric layer in a cover. Microfiber is super absorbant, and we have heard of babies having problems with the absorbant inserts adhering to fragile skin, so we advise having another fabric between the skin of your baby and these inserts. A layer of fleece, flannel, suedecloth, anything really will work.

Microfiber inserts are quick-absorbing, and work beautifully for many customers.

2. Hemp-Joey Bunz, Thirsties, Happy Heiny Stuffins to name a few. Hemp is a great fabric, lasting forever and very absorbant. A great article on hemp fabric in diapers can be found here:

http://www.cutofcloth.com/article_hemp.asp

Hemp can touch the baby's skin without issue. We advise not to let your hemp inserts go more than 2 days without washing. While hemp is a favorite insert for many mamas, they can get stinky if you let them sit in urine for too long. A little detergent goes a long way with hemp~

3. Cotton- Indian prefolds, Thirsties prefolds are 100% cotton. Durable, simple, non-allergenic, gotta love 100% cotton!

Prefolds are fabulous for durability and absorbancy. A must have for any cloth diapering mama!

Make sure you check out our "nighttime diapering" article for more tips~

What diaper creams can I use with my cloth diapers? TOP

Unfortunately we have yet to encounter one single diaper cream we can safely say "across the board" will not cause any problems. Diaper creams work because they cause a barrier against wetness and your baby's skin. This causes problems with cloth diapers because they can adhere to the fabrics and cause a barrier against the diapers absorbing urine. This is referred to as "buildup".

But, there are some ways around this:

What we recommend, is the fleece liner system, or flannel liner if your baby is allergic to fleece, to use any cream you wish with your diapers. We do sell fleece liners, but you can make them for pennies (flannel, too). At your nearest fabric store, get a yard or so of fleece or flannel, and cut into rectangles to fit your diapers. Fleece doesn't need to be sewn on the edges, flannel does because it frays. Make a bunch, about two dozen. Put the cream directly on these liners, against your baby's skin. Keep a grocery bag or wet bag handy just for these liners once they are used, don't mix them with the rest of your diaper laundry. Wash seperately from the diapers, so the creams don't rinse off in the wash cycle and adhere to your diapers~

After about a week, check the liners. If they are slimy, stained and smelly, continue using this system, or try another cream to test. If they are washing clean, it is safe for your diapers :)

Nighttime Diapering 101 TOP

So you have gotten a good handle on cloth diapering, have your shopping list all ready to go, maybe even check out some cloth diapering online forums. Then, you notice some mamas talking about difficulties with nighttime diapering. Nighttime diapering? You mean there is a totally different system for when Mr Moon comes out?

Well, yes and no~

Newborn diapering is the same round the clock, for most babies. For at least the first few weeks, the little guys are pooping around the clock, so those diapers get changed at nighttime just like the daytime hours. But then, that little lumpy newborn gets a bit older, stops having a bowel movement at night, and you are greeted with your first 3 hour stretch of sleep and awake to...a leaky sleeper.

Time to upgrade your nighttime system!

The most common e-mail from customers on nighttime diapering is:

My baby wakes up crying because he is soaking wet!

Check the insert of the diaper. If you are using prefolds, is it saturated? If so, time to upgrade. Add a hemp joey bunz underneath, or maybe it is time to get a bigger prefold.

Insert not wet? Possibly a fit issue. Is the cover snug around the legs? Is the waistline too low? Fit issues tend to be very specific, shoot me an e-mail at AbbysLane@aol.com with the issue, I know I can help :)

Here are a few tips we can offer based on ages of your child. Now, ages are a very general way to break it down, but we feel it is more accurate than weight, since a 12 pound baby could be a newborn (don't laugh, my darling husband was 12 pounds at BIRTH, you may send a Mother's Day card to my mother in law for that one, e-mail me for her address-LOL) or it could be a 4 month old, but both will have very different nighttime patterns.

From birth to 6 weeks: Those little baby nuggets are still busy a-pooping at all hours of the night. Nighttime changes are like daytime changes, pick a user-friendly fitted or pocket for changes at 2,3 and 4, and don't worry, it gets better soon.

2-6 months-they have stopped pooping, but are still eating at night (for some of you this may go on for the next two years). If you are using natural fibers, like a prefold or an organic fitted, if you are noticing redness in the morning, consider a stay-dry liner to keep the wetness off of their skin. If you want to stick to natural fibers, you may find a nighttime change helpful to keep that redness away. Some mamas are passionate about changing the baby several times a night to prevent the baby from sitting in urine, but many feel a sleeping baby is vital to everyone's sanity, so definitely employ whatever method you can to make baby feel comfy. At this point, absorbency needs are creeping up, if you are using pockets, consider switching out your microfiber inserts for a trifolded prefold at this point, either the infant or regular size, depending on the size of your diaper.

6 months to a year-Pocket diaper users find a combo of a prefold, or a prefold with a joey bunz insert great for meeting nighttime needs. Absorbency is key here, and the older babies can be very heavy wetters. Prefold/fitted users may find a hemp doubler or even two in the prefold or fitted provides the extra boost.

12 months to 2 years-Yes, they have a bladder the size of a racehorse. My favorite pocket combo for this age range, a prefold trifolded, sandiwiched between two joey bunz hemp inserts. Some other favorite pockets combos are: Prefolds wrapped with a microfiber towel, a Happy Heiny Stuffin with a microfiber towel trifolded on top, A Loopy Do Insert on top of a trifolded prefold. Fitteds mamas may need a super-absorbent prefold (like the Swaddlebees One Size Organic Fitteds) are needed, and may add a hemp insert with it.

2 years + -toddlers can swing either way here. Those potty training early may start actually waking up with very light diapers, they are holding it more at night and flooding that first morning diaper. For the rest of us, we are waking up at 1 am with our child crying in a swimming pool of urine. This is when I pull out the big guns. My second daughter is the absolute heaviest wetter I could dream up. We are fond of pockets, so I would stuff a Happy Heiny pocket with a trifolded premium prefold, two joey bunz hemp inserts, and then pull a Disana wool cover over the whole contraption. It is absolutely flawless. If you are using pockets, the wool cover on top will not cook your baby, wool is 100% breatheable, but perfect for catching those last-minute leaks that heavy wetting toddler will provide. Fitteds/prefolds users, check into the Disana covers as well, absorbency underneath is still key ( Swaddlebees one size OV fitteds), but those wool covers are unbeatable.

What other equipment do I need? TOP

Once you decide on which system to go with (or a combination of both), and purchase your diapers, Snappis (if you are using the cover/prefold system), and inserts, you need very little additional equiptment. A pail I have used for years and love is below:

Diaper Pail

It is a "dry" pail, meaning it has no water in it to soak the soiled diapers. Some prefer a "wet" pail with a water-solution in it, but they are

-a drowning hazard

-a bacterial hazard

-messy and stinky

-Lord help you if you drop it carrying it to your washer. Although if you want new carpet this is a good way to get it done

You will want a reusable bag liner to store the soiled diapers in, actually, you will want a few of these. Lastly, you may want to use cloth wipes and a natural deoderizer for your bathroom, pail or diaper changing area, if neccessary. I keep a little potpourri burner in my house, so we have never had any odors.

Diaper Rash 101 TOP

Rashes happen, even in the child who has the diaper changed incredibly frequently, fed the healthiest of solids and/or breastmilk, bathed regularly and in a clean environment. Teething, illness, new solids, heat, allergies, yeast from mom being on antibiotics, new detergents, all of these things can cause a rash. Here is a little "rash 101" (and I am not a doctor by any means, just a mama with 3 girls who have all had various rashes and trouble shooting with customers frequently, if the rash is bad, see a doctor, don't hesitate to get help with anything that causes your baby pain!)

-The most frequent rash babies will get is a reaction to new foods. The biggest irritants tend to be acidy foods (oranges, tomatoes), but cow dairy, wheat, any food irritant will usually cause redness and possibly blisters around the anus when the child has a bowel movement. thi is also common when the child is starting solids. It is usually just around the rectum, not on the entire diaper area.

-Teething can cause horrific diarrhea and stools that seem to burn the child coming out. This rash can be more spread out, and the child really can experience pain when passing the movement.

-Yeast is usually raw and blistery, all over the diaper area. Cracked and very dry looking skin is common, possibly even white centers in the blisters.

-Staph is typically pimples on the diaper area, filled with either white or green pus, with a pink circle around the pimple and possibly very hard feeling under the skin.

-Detergent rashes, if mild, usually present as a general redness wherever the diaper touches. Severe detergent reactions can produce very red skin, and quickly, possibly blisters. A severe reaction usually occurs within an hour of having the diaper on.

-If the child is sensitive to wetness, if you are using prefolds or fitteds without fleece liners, will start as a general redness and the skin can get very deep-red in the cracks of the skin. The child will flinch when the diaper is changed, you may notice the skin shedding after a few days if it isn't treated.

-If the child has a fleece/polyester allergy (this is very, very rare, many moms we talk to usually discover the irritant was something else, but this condition does exist), reactions have been a general redness to immediate blistering and deep red skin.

-Heat rash is usually redness with tiny red blisters (no white centers), and goes away if the child has breatheable diapers on or is changed more frequently.

Consult your physician if your methods of treating aren't helping, in the case of Staph or yeast, you will need to treat your diapers with a disinfectant to make sure it doesn't keep recurring. Yeast can be tough to deal with, but you can disinfect your diapers. Please e-mail me at Abbyslane@aol.com if you have this occur, we can discuss ways to safely do this depending on the diapers you have.

A note on "my diapers are leaking so I need to strip them" TOP

I just want to address an issue for many of our customers already into cloth diapering :)

It seems very popular now that if a diaper is leaking, meaning a cover, pocket diaper or an AIO, that the first step seems to be to "strip" it. Not the kind that starts with red wine and Barry Manilow, but the kind that uses Dawn dish soap, a toothbrush and very hot water on your diapers. The idea is that detergent residue is built up on your diapers, repelling the urine and it leaks onto the clothing.

BEFORE you strip your diapers, answer these questions:

-Does the diaper leak immediately, meaning within the first 10 minutes, or does at least an hour or so go by before it leaks?

-Does it leak around the legs or the very front of the waist?

-When you take it off, is the insert at all wet, or if you do fitteds/prefolds and covers, are they wet?

If you answered "no, yes and yes", don't strip your diapers. If they are truly repelling, they will leak immediately, not absorb any urine and leak all over, including the back. The key here is absorbency, absorbency, absorbency.

THE EXCEPTION HERE:DIAPER CREAMS. IF YOU ARE USING DIAPER CREAMS BUILDUP CAN HAPPEN QUICKLY, e-mail me on suggestions to fix this

Many customers underestimate the need for good absorbency. A 9 month old in a single microfiber insert isn't going to last all night, an 11 month old in a microfiber insert in a pocket isn't going to last for a daytime nap. My favorite and EASY way, before going through all of the work of stripping, is to buy a prefold (if you need help picking a size, e-mail me at Abbyslane@aol.com), for less than $3.00, prep it, trifold it like a business letter and use it inside your pocket diaper. I can almost guarantee (almost is the key word here) your leaking will be solved. It takes a LOT of wrong washing and odd detergents to cause true buildup bad enough to repel. If you are using AIOs, most only have a 3-layer microfiber soaker sewn in. This is not enough absorbency for most older babies and toddlers for extended periods of time. You need to lay in a hemp insert or change more frequently to make this work for you. If you are using prefolds/fitteds and covers, and your cover is leaking, how wet is the prefold? It may be time for an absorbency upgrade. Stripping be can be incredibly frustrating, it is work, it takes time and resources, and if the problem is absorbency it won't help a thing :) If you need more assistance with this, or you think you have true detertgent buildup, give me a holler at Abbyslane@aol.com

How do I care for my wool? TOP

From our newsletter:

Last week we talked about the "why" of wool, this week is more about the "how" and "seriously I have to handwash it?"
The second part of that sentence was a big reason I steered clear of wool for so long. I hate hand washing dishes for crying out loud, laundry was definately a no go for anything handwashed. I just don't own or allow the kids to own anything that is delicate enough to need it~
Wool is really very easy to care for, I am going to outline my very easy, no fuss wool care washing system. I do ours maybe once a month, Lucy is a very light night wetter now, and her wool rarely gets wet, when she was a very heavy wetter, once a week I would do this routine.
-First, do all of your wool washing outside of your sink. You don't want lanolin in your pipes, look at it in the cooled version, and imagine it sitting in your drain. Use a rubbermaid basin, an old pitcher with a wide opening, a metal baking tin, sometimes I used a cake pan, easy to wash and it wouldn't absorb the wool care products.
-Fill your container with warm water, and about a tablespoon of liquid wool wash (We sell a fantastic brand, you can use Eucalan, in a pinch liquid dish soap will do, but on a regular basis this can really wear on the wool fibers). If you are using a bar, you will scrub the wool lightly all over after you wet it. Compress the soaker into the solution, and let sit for about a minute, swishing it with your hand to work the water/soap into the soaker.
-Have an old towel nearby, take the soaker out and lay it in the towel. Roll the towel up, and press on it, don't wring it, but press it to compress the water out.
-Dump your first basin outside, and refill with new warm water
-Take a coffee mug, microwave it full of water for about a minute
-When you take it out, squirt about 2 pea sized drops of lanolin in it, we sell some great stuff by Face of the Wave, you can use lansinoh as well), and mix it up quickly with a fork or knife. This is really the only part that you have to move quickly, you have to dissolve the lanolin and use it fast, or it will reclump back up as it cools.
-Pour the coffee mug into the basin, and quickly press your soaker down into it. Gently swish it around in the basin, then let it sit a minute
-Repeat the towel trick, compress the water out, and hang to dry.
-Toss the basin water/lanolin outside, and allow the soaker to dry a day or two.
During the winter, I have mine in my laundry room so it doesn't freeze, if you have a really large soaker, or longies, lay them flat to dry instead of hanging to preserve their shape. If you need a wool soaker overnight, get two so one can dry while you use the second.
This whole process takes maybe 5 minutes to do, and is really very easy to get the hang of. Truthfully as Lucy became a lighter wetter at night, I can't remember the last time I lanolized, the small amount of lanolin in our Face of the Wave liquid wool wash is enough to have the soaker work. Wool is super absorbent on its own, so you can see if you really need to lanolize your wool if you have good absorbency underneath.

A few notes on cloth "Trainers" and potty training~ TOP

This is an excerpt from a newsletter entry, 5/09/2008:

Our second daughter, Camille, just potty trained this week (so I am down to one in diapers-yeah!) Our first daughter went straight from her Happy Heinys to the potty in about a week. Camille has taken about 8 months-LOL-and did use trainers in the interim. Trainers aren't a necessity at all, and some children won't even bother with them if you try. Trainers don't initiate potty training, this is all up to the child. I get frustrated e-mails from mamas of 2, 3 and 4 year olds who are upset the trainers aren't increasing their child's drive to use the potty. For trainers to help, your child has to really be motivated to train, and have the communication skills to understand this function of his/her body. The big "pros" for trainers are:

-They help the baby feel the wetness, if you are using stay-dry diapers the child doesn't have that cue from the diapers.

-The are more like "underwear" and a bit trimmer

BUT

-They are only made to hold one urination

-If your child could care less about feeling wet, they won't be bothered at all by the trainer to use the potty.

If your child has had successful catches on the potty, and the communication skills are present to talk about the process, maybe try one for daytime use. See how your child reacts, if he/she will urinate in it as freely as a diaper, and not care if he/she feels wet, the readiness may not be there yet. If he/she wets and gets excited about using the potty, or holds the urine enough to run to the potty, then trainers might aid the process.

For Abby, she was verbal enough and excited enough about wearing underwear, she wanted nothing that resembled a diaper (in other words, a piece of cake I am sure I will never see again)

For Camille, she could care less if she felt wetness, but she loved her animal print Imse Vimse trainers so much she hated to pee on them and have them changed-LOL-so she eventually would get to the potty and go so she could keep it on like underwear. Now, this truly has been a 8 month process, so trainers at the beginning of this process were pointless, she would pee straight through them and care less. Before investing in a bunch, try one and see how your child reacts.

Honestly, from talking with customers and friends, we see *most* girls training close to three, boys closer to age 4. That is only daytime training, naptime and nighttime can take a year or more to accomplish. Potty training can be a rollar coaster of trial and error, but thinking of what I will be worrying about when they are teenagers, I will take an accident on the carpet any day of the week!

I need some more help :) TOP

Feel free to contact me with any other particular questions you may have. I would love to help convince you that cloth diapering is the best choice for you and your baby, and any way I can help, I will :)

Abbyslane@aol.com, I check it many times a day~

A great book to assist in any cloth diapering search is "The Do-It Yourself Cloth Diapering Handbook", any question you will ever have about cloth diapering is answered here :)

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